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Sometimes, life just sucks the life out of you…up…down…advance…retreat – it’s all part of that glorious game called sink or swim.

hazel cox earrings, pineapple quartz jewelry, melon jacket, Payette Lake, gold bangles, Target tank top, Nygard Collection This balmy month of April has been fraught with personal growth-inducing turbulence – I sank to the bottom of an endless body of brine called the sea of responsibility, sputtered back to life and swam gleefully to the shore of that same weighty sea to dance a jig upon its pebbly shores, and cautiously splashed around in its beckoning tide only to be swept out to sea again.

Payette Lake, McCall Idaho, thrift store fashion, Abercrombie skinny jeansHere it is April 25, already the dregs of this fleeting month, and I’ve been swept out to sea and back again more times than a free-range buoy.

white leather shoes, thrift store finds, thrifting, thrift store fashionIt’s times like these, when I feel stretched in more directions than taffy on a pull, that I wonder why I persist with this blog. It is, after all, one hefty weekly commitment. But FU offers something to my life that I don’t currently get with any other obligation – it requires me to write for myself, no matter how brief or inconsequential some entries may be. It also insists that I take a little time to think creatively about my dress, even if all that means for the time being is throwing a cheerful jacket over an otherwise humdrum outfit. And lastly, this blog insures that I will, at least once during the week, go for a walk along Payette Lake’s recently ice-free shores with Ma and doggie Ethyl, or any number of other photo-op adventures with the fine women of this virtual establishment.

labradoodle dog, Payette Lake, cropped jacket, spring looks, spring fashionWho knows what’s in store for next week, but for now you get plain, unfiltered and unpolished me – glasses, zits and all. Here’s to the week to come…..let’s hope for more shore and less tide.

Nygard Collection, melon jacket, cropped jacket, labradoodle dog, McCall, Payette, Cole HaanA “jacket and loafers saved it” Look (all but the jewelry is thrifted):
Cropped embroidered jacket – Nygard Collection / Black tank top – Mossimo /
Skinny jeans – Abercrombie / White leather loafers – Cole Haan / Earrings – Hazel Cox /
Gold bangles & rings – gifts from Grandma

Thanks to my Ma for the photos.

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Salt Optics, titanium glasses, Frye Dorado boots, vintage knits, vintage Pendelton, ochre tights, color tights, thrift store fashion, vintage fashion, thrifty, photographer Kelly Lynae

There’s this amazing thing that happens here in our humble City of Trees……it’s called STORY STORY NiGHT. Ever heard of it? If not, you should check it out. True stories on a theme, told live onstage and without notes. Simple…right? Anyone can do it. YOU can do it. But if the thought of getting onstage and telling a tale from your life leaves you feeling at a lose for words, our STUDiO can help you find em. And get this – it’s FREE. Every month. True story.

photographer Kelly Lynae, Salt optics, titanium glasses, Story Story Night, storytelling, true story, Hazel Cox, velvet blazerPart of my role at Story Story Night is to guide the story-curious through the oft winding path of bringing a life experience to the stage. I think of this process as a journey of sorts. What follows is an abridged version of what we call the Essential Elements of Story. If you want the full length version, well, you’ll just have to attend the STUDiO, dear readers.

photographer Kelly Lynae, ochre velvet, velvet jacket, vintage knit tee, Pendelton wool skirt, Frye boots, how to tell a storyAn Instructorly Outfit: vintage knit tee by R & K Knits / vintage wool skirt by Pendleton
vintage velvet blazer by Koret / black leather riding boots by Frye / earrings by Hazel Cox
antique gold bangles and rings from grandma / glasses by Salt


photographer Kelly Lynae, Hazel Cox earrings, knit clothing, standing at the window, gold bangles, antique jewelry, thrifting for fashion

I :  THE MAP
The map of your story is the direction in which you choose to guide your audience. If you remember to stay on track and indulge your audience by describing the highlights (or more often, low points) along the way, they’ll stay with you to the end.

II : THE PACE
Don’t wear your travelers out. More importantly, don’t wear yourself out. Give your story the space it needs in order to be fully realized and experienced by your audience.

III : THE LEFT TURN
This is the key turn in your story – the surprising moment when you choose not to stay the course and things get real. Now is the time to reveal to them your vulnerability.

IV : GO THE DiSTANCE
Now that you’ve taken these tourists of your life to the next level and invited them to be a part of the journey by taking that left turn with you, go the distance. Drive your story home by fearlessly reflecting on how that left turn affected you.

V : THE FAREWELL
Be sure to give your travelers something to remember you by. For the purposes of this journey, the perfect farewell gift is a solid, meaningful goodbye.

R&K Knits, vintage knits, thrifting, thrift store, thrift store fashion, knit clothing, buttons down the back

Thank you Kelly Lynae for the lovely photos, and thank you Jessica Holmes for turning your Story Story brainchild into a Boise phenomenon. 

 

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black halo, silk baby doll dress, hazel cox, calvin klein shoes, strappy leather heelsOn February 10 of this year, Dustin and I officially fled the tortuous unknown of bidding war purgatory and jumped straight into the searing hot certainty of property ownership. Again.

In March of 2010, we purchased our home in a cozy, quiet little neighborhood just blocks away from our favorite Boise-living perks – the Boise River, the Greenbelt, and a generous pocket of incredible ethnic markets. As we settled into our new home, we couldn’t help but notice that the tiny ramshackle of a dwelling next door was vacant. The poor old place had a caved roof, sagging shingles, and more dandelions carpeting the yard than grass.

Guinevere cropped wool sweater, Calvin Klein heelsWe watched. We waited. Eventually, the yokels who owned the place came around and, through a series of conversations that included impromptu outbursts of harmonica solos and requests for a “jar of water”, we discerned that the old woman who lived there several years ago had died, and her gaggle of toothless offspring were fixing to sell.

Black Halo, Hazel Cox, warm color palate

A Fiery Getup: Flame-red silk dress by Black Halo / Orange cropped angora-wool sweater by Guinevere for Anthropologie / Ochre tights by Worthington / Charcoal leather strapped heels by Calvin Klein / Serpent necklace & bracelet by Hazel Cox

 

It was a lengthy, exhausting, and teeth gnashing battle to get these folks to comprehend that the chunk of dirt and dilapidated shack was not in fact worth the laughable $80k they were asking, but eventually we prevailed and paid a fine sum of $30k for the neglected but infinitely promising lot.

Black Halo, Guinevere wool sweater, silk dress, Calvin Klein heels, Hazel CoxNow, the real work begins. What was once an oppressively depressing, mold-infested shanty filled with cobwebs and over a century of palpable memories is now slowly but surely becoming a greenhouse and studio apartment. The weed-strewn lot is now home to a community garden (and a petanque court, for good measure). We’re slowly coaxing the peach, plum, and apricot trees back to their fruitful old selves, and are making plans for chickens and bees……perhaps a goat or two.

farming, gardening in Idaho, petanque courtThe future home of what we’re tentatively calling “Handsomehound Farm”

Out of the frying pan and into the fire……..we’ve invested ourselves in a lifetime of work; my arms feel like wet noodles and I have constant blisters on my hands from digging, scraping, and shaping the soil, and my skin is dry to cracking from being constantly caked with dirt……but for now, it’s definitely the fire of inspiration and dedication we’re feeling.

 

 

Digging garden furrows with Edmund K. Handsomehound

Great feats of dedicated inspiration can often suck the motivation out of other creative endeavors…..thank goodness for the unending fashion prowess of Kelly Lynae, who dressed me for this post, and whatever would I do without Bethany Walter‘s indomitable photography skills. A big huzzah! to Jessica Holmes this week too, for suggesting we stage a photo shoot in my “haunted shanty.”  It’s an incredible blessing to have such creative, talented friends.

Betty Page haircut, silk frock, wool sweater, rope necklace, brunette

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