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When I was laid off in the great upheavals of 2008 (can it have been that long ago?), the first thing I did was buy stuff. I know. But it was half-priced curtains, and a few buckets of paint. An investment in a room of one’s own.

Now, 4 years and so many trials and revelations and breakthroughs and breakdowns in this little room later, I remain a rebel. I have built my own strange and wondrous and epically big-time relentlessly challenging career based on words, words, words. I have forged my own path. I will never go back.

Rebel hanging trophy art (March 2011 featured storyteller prize, Bricolage).When I got this trophy, it was for Story Story Night‘s REBELLION: Stories of You Say You Want a Revolution, a theme inspired by the Arab spring. This is when I met Awot Haile through Create Common Good. He is a recent refugee to Boise from the North African country of Eritrea. We happen to be exactly the same age, born the same year only 12 days, and entire worlds, apart.

Together, with only 2 weeks and his 8 months of English to work with, we met often and wrote out and talked out his powerful story of rebellion in his home country.

Then he told his story, live on stage and without notes. He got our first and only standing ovation.

Awot is an amazing person. I think of him as a brother. He calls me his sister. That is the power of story. The power of words.

Liz Clairborne Sport vintage red dress ($6, thrift store). Yesterday, I wore this dress to a baby shower for him and his wife, Salemawit. She is 8 months pregnant with their first child, a baby boy. New life in a new land.

Now, I have learned that all that really counts in the end is facing truths head on. Then moving forward.

So I will face my faults. I will face my fears. I will face my strengths. And I will confront any and all motherf*ckers who try to take away my freedoms. Because I’ve realized (at least to me), freedom means everything. Mind, body and soul. Rebel, party people. In a room of one’s own. Tibetan turquoise, coral and beaded breastplate ($140, Armor Bijoux). Frye Boots (Dorado Short), $200 (after $200 gift donation from mom and pop).

Red velvet and carved wood throne chair: $49 (The Bench Commission).

The pen is mightier than the sword. The serious bad ass shall inherit the earth. Green carnelian and silver soul ring ($180, Armor Bijoux), backed by Pentel RSVP black fine pen ($1).

Native American woman art ($20, Flying M art show) by Toby Robin of Neighborhood All Stars, fantastic design partner for Story Story Night.

I took these pictures myself. If you can’t tell. Bringing home the bacon. Frying it up in the pan.

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He saw corsets, corsets, corsets, corsets, corsets, corsets, corsets, corsets.

Do you know how to pony?  Like bony maroney.

Do you know how to twist? Well it goes like this, it goes like this:

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It’s 10pm in Bangkok and, rest assured, I haven’t eaten dinner, I’m blogging from a shopping mall, and I’m rocking a neoprene wrist support on my right mouse-clicker (back in the olden days they called them ‘hands’). The mall rat smack has hit my veins and it sounds a lot like Patti Smith singing horses, horses, horses, horses.

But Bangkok’s new Terminal 21 shopping mall — each floor themed after a different international city — exerts a loopy alchemy. Suddenly I get the feeling I’m being surrounded by corsets, corsets, corsets, corsets!  Perhaps I’m paranoid. Or perhaps Pedro and I have lingered a little too long on the Tokyo floor, home of happycorset.com:

Marilyn Monroe, Kim Philley, Vanessa Boots, Pedro, corsets, Frivolous Universe, http://http://www.frivolousuniverse.com/, FU, fit to be tied, Asia Street Style, Thai fashion, Bangkok fashion, Bangkok street style, Terminal 21 shopping mall, Tokyo floor, www.happycorsets.com

My figure has been more Smith than Monroe as of late. All I do is work; my ass is beginning to take the shape of my cheap, sunken office chair. No offense to Patti, but I’m over being a gay man’s muse.

Kim Philley, Patti Smith, Horses, Vanessa Boots, Frivolous Universe, Asia Street Style, street fashion, Terminal 21, Bangkok, Thai fashion

Part of my family’s lore is a story about my great-grandfather wanting to get some sleep after a long day’s work. He stumbled into the bedroom he shared with my great-grandmother. When he saw all his wife’s ‘underthings’ strewn about the room, her corset included, he barked, ‘Gracie, get those women off of my bed!’

I want my women back. I want hips like María Félix when I don my little black dress.

Maria Felix, the little black dress, La Dona, Vanessa Boots, Kim Philley, Frivolous Universe, street style, FU

For this week’s post I found a beautiful woman with a gorgeous figure to fill my size-10 shoes. Don’t let the name Pedro dissuade you. ‘He’ is definitely 100% La Doña. Pedro looks smokin’ in his Happy Corset. And that Tibetan breastplate sure don’t hurt — a dramarama accessory I believe FU has singlehandedly put back on the fashion map.

Marilyn Monroe, Kim Philley, Vanessa Boots, Pedro, corsets, Frivolous Universe, http://http://www.frivolousuniverse.com/, FU, fit to be tied, Asia Street Style, Thai fashion, Bangkok fashion, Bangkok street style, Terminal 21 shopping mall, Tokyo floor, www.happycorsets.com

Black corset: Happy Corset, Tokyo Floor, Terminal 21, Bangkok

Tibetan breastplate: Bethany Walter’s fabulous online jewelry store, Armor Bijoux

Copper bracelet: The Gold Mine, Ketchum, Idaho

Strappy heels: Geez, Pedro — where’d ya get those sweet heels? Fill me in when you got a sec.

Marilyn Monroe, Kim Philley, Vanessa Boots, Pedro, corsets, Frivolous Universe, http://http://www.frivolousuniverse.com/, FU, fit to be tied, Asia Street Style, Thai fashion, Bangkok fashion, Bangkok street style, Terminal 21 shopping mall, Tokyo floor, www.happycorsets.com

How have we gone from ooh la la guitarra to Victoria’s Secret in 50-odd years? It must have been the Fin de siècle.

Heidi Klum & VIctoria's Secret 'Angels', Kim Philley, Vanessa Boots, http://http://www.frivolousuniverse.com/, FU, Asian Street Style, Bangkok street style, Thai fashion

Thank God there’s a burlesque dancer to redeem us all: the mermaid-pale, azure-corseted Dita Von Teese:

Dita Von Teese corset jewelled pastel (Kim Philley for FU), Vanessa Boots, corsets, subtly slutty, Asian Street Style, Bangkok fashion, Bangkok street style, Thai fashion, http://http://www.frivolousuniverse.com/, FU, Frivolous Universe, fashion

Well color me purple. Next time I draw you a Liger, Pedro, I’ll make it all Gotham-like. Ligers are like a lion and tiger mixed — bred for its skills in magic. Just like mating an antique Tibetan breastplate with a cheap Bangkok corset. Same species, Pedro.

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Dear Pedro (a.k.a. Vanessa Boots),

Thanks again for all the sweet hook-ups and for letting me be a lazy blogger. If you don’t come back to visit soon I’m going to have to grow some T&A along with a midnight work ethic. I’m just so tired — gosh!

Peace out,

Napoleon

Photographer: Vanessa Boots, Kim Philley, Frivolous Universe, FU, http://http://www.frivolousuniverse.com/, Asia Street Style, Bangkok fashion, Thai street style, corsets, Terminal 21 shopping mall, happycorsets.com

Photographs by Vanessa Boots (a.k.a. Pedro) and the bemused shop girl at www.happycorsets.com

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My mood dictates heavily what I wear. This night, Story Story Night, I planned on dressing more glamorous and wearing my Kim Basinger cream wool dress circa 1990’s Batman. Earlier in the day, I had even made it over to Tanzanite Salon and stylist Jen Brown fixed my hair into this 2012’s popular side swept look.

 ooooo . . .

2012’s popular side swept hair: Tanzanite Salon, styled by Jen Brown

My female cycle is coming. That night I was feeling emotional and vulnerable. I wasn’t wanting to embody the feminine and delicateness of my preselected dress or it’s white coloring sure to spotlight against an audience of dark colors. This is my last minute scramble for an outfit styled by PMS.

Gray campy t-shirt: GAP, over a year ago
Emerald velvet dress: Betsey Johnson, Lux Fashion Lounge, Christmas gift from Jessica

Anna wrote this week about chromotherapy and how color can change a person’s mood. Anna, I’m not sure if I believe in it either but I am definitely drawn to certain colors based on what I feel or want to feel. When I am emotional, I usually want to counterbalance and dress for strength, which usually translates into minimal and or darker colors.

Tibetan breastplate: Armor Bijoux

Adding to the empowering strength of a dark color palette, I also like to wear big and bold jewelry for extra emphasis. Accents of fierce colors such as the red in this Tibetan breastplate helps too.

 Vintage rings: old pawn Navajo, gift (see this post for close up photo)
Black lace-up leather boots: We Who See, Urban Outfitters 3 years ago

Why stop with color and big jewelry might as well wear black lace-up ankle boots that say I am durable.

Photography by Anna Demetriades

My female cycle has a pattern of inspiring me to want to move to another country, change careers, and save the world in one week.

My current fantasy for a better world is wage laws that make it so that everyone who works a full week can afford a humane way of living, which includes the occasional vacation, healthy organic food, day care, health insurance, housing, and time to be physically active. It would also be nice if there were laws that regulated how businesses operate, i.e. not over working people because of labor cuts or slave driving people over seas because they have less protection. Maybe there are some laws, but right now it seems too easy and acceptable to exploit another person for profits. We need more accountability.

What is the psychology of how you dress?

 

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